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Quit Dating Idiots Coaching Bootcamp

Are you emotionally exhausted from dating the wrong people?

Does the thought of wading through any more undesirables on dating apps make you want to through your phone out of the nearest window?

Have you lost confidence in yourself after too many disappointments and rejections?

If you answered 'yes!' to any of the above, then the Quit Dating Idiots 9 Week Online Coaching Bootcamp could be the answer you've been searching for!

“The coaching and techniques I went through with Laura have hands down been responsible for the biggest shifts I’ve made in the 18 years I’ve been doing self-work." Andrea, Melbourne

Imagine if you could... 

... Press Ctrl + Alt + Delete on all those past hurts and events that dimmed your shine

... Overcome that jaded 'flat-lining' feeling and reclaim your power and radiance

 

... Get clear on how you want to show up in life and cultivate the qualities that will take you from where you are to where you want to be in your life and relationships

... Define what is non-negotiable to you when it comes to dating and the kind of partner you want to be with

... Confidently spot and deal with idiots and red flags easily and effortlessly

... Have an easy to follow strategy for attracting the right men and navigating the early stages of dating 

... Clearly and confidently communicate your boundaries and position yourself as a high-value woman

... Create a loving and mutually fulfilling relationship with a highly compatible partner...

To apply for Bootcamp, click the link above to schedule a 15-minute call with Laura. When you schedule a time, you will be asked a few questions about where you're at and what you want to achieve. Laura will chat more about this on your scheduled call and answer any questions you may have about the program. This is to ensure that everyone joining Bootcamp is on the same page and committed to doing the work and getting the results.

What others are saying...

“The coaching and techniques I went through with Laura have hands down been responsible for the biggest shifts I’ve made in the 18 years I’ve been doing self-work. We had many conversations, mainly around how I saw myself as a woman – I’d held this belief that I was very masculine, even down to my short hair, and had largely held the masculine role in relationships which eventually led to their demise.

I thought I had to be strong, both physically and emotionally, so that I couldn't be taken advantage of, disappointed or left- so I took control, called the shots and did my best to rule the roost. Of course, that never worked out for me, hence my

desire to find out why and do something about it. I now have a magnificent relationship with my dream man and feel safe expressing my femininity.” ~ Andrea, Melbourne

What is Quit Dating Idiots Bootcamp?

Bootcamp is a 9-week online group coaching program that has been specifically designed to help frustrated women identify and break the behavioural patterns that keep them repeating the same mistakes in dating and relationships. 

The program uses a special blend of coaching, Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) tools, humour and insights to take women on a journey of transformation.

The Program at a Glance - Commencing Thursday 15th August

Weeks 1-3 Know Yourself (aka Base Camp)

The first three weeks of Bootcamp address the most important aspect of relationships - your relationship with yourself. The definition of Base Camp is 'a camp from which expeditions set out or from which a particular activity can be carried out.' If you want to experience a truly fulfilling, conscious relationship, you need to have a solid foundation within yourself first.

During the first three weeks, we'll work together to help you:

  • Identify the limiting beliefs you have about yourself that get in the way of you having everything you want. We'll also look at the limiting stories you keep telling yourself about your past experiences and re-write your relationship story.
     

  • Discover insights about yourself that you may previously have been unaware of, including your attachment style, your love language and your personality type.
     

  • Forgive and release people and situations from the past so that you can take your power back.
     

  • Create a desire map to help you identify what you really want and need in a partner (and in life!) and what qualities you need to cultivate and emphasise within yourself to attract what you desire.

Weeks 4-6 Dating Strategy 

During the next three weeks, we take a deeper look at the strategy and processes involved in attracting and dating quality partners. We'll work together to help you:

  • Claim back your power and radiance to enable you to attract the kind of partner you want to attract.
     

  • Identify red flags and how to handle them.
     

  • Be able to set up a dating profile that sets you apart from the crowd as a high-value woman.
     

  • Navigate the early stages of dating so you can remove the guess-work and concentrate on being fabulous.
     

  • Learn how to communicate your values, standards and boundaries with confidence (plus LOTS more!)

Weeks 7-9 Keeping it Juicy

During the final three weeks, we'll work together to give you the communication tools and self-confidence that will take your relationships (with yourself and others) to a whole new level. We'll work together to help you:
 

  • Learn the patterns and phrases that destroy relationships (so that you can avoid them!) and the ones that supercharge your connection with a partner (so you can implement them whenever you want to inject more energy into your relationships).
     

  • Become comfortable with both masculine and feminine energy to enable you to create and keep the passion alive in your relationships.
     

  • Strategies for maintaining your high-value woman status for the rest of your life, regardless of what life throws your way. 

 

How it works

  • Videos and webinars
    Each week you'll be coached on a topic and given specifically designed challenges to help maximise your results. This will be done via a mixture of video and live webinars (any live webinars will be recorded and sent out to those who are unable to attend Livestream).
     

  • Emails and worksheets 
    Throughout Bootcamp you'll be learning lots of new tools and doing transformational work. Laura will email out any worksheets you need so you can work through the transformational work at your own pace.

     

  • Group support and Q&A's
    You will be on this journey with a sisterhood of likeminded women. There is a private Bootcamp Facebook Group set-up for you to share your experiences and connect. This is also where a live weekly Q&A session will be held to workshop and challenges and delve deeper into the week's work.

The Quit Dating Idiots Bootcamp is the perfect blend of coaching, education, support and fun!

What's the investment?

There are flexible pricing options for Bootcamp as I wanted to make it as accessible as possible for people (to give a little context, 1:1 coaching with me is £75 per hour).

 Aside from my own dealings with idiots in the past, after years coaching women, I have seen first hand the damage and devastation that can come from dating the wrong people. I want to help as many women as possible avoid wasting precious years of their life spinning their wheels and losing their self-esteem in the wrong relationships.

There are two options...

Base Camp - this is the first three weeks of Bootcamp only. You will complete the first three weeks along with everybody else but that is where your journey ends for now. Base Camp is the foundation that everything else in Bootcamp builds upon. This is a great starting point for anyone who is desperate to join Bootcamp but can't stretch to the full program. The price of Base Camp is £150.

 

Bootcamp - this is full access to the whole 9-week journey along with access to the private Facebook community with weekly Q&A Coaching sessions. Bootcamp is a comprehensive, transformative coaching program that covers everything from healing past traumas to dating strategy and how to keep a relationship juicy in the long term. The price of Bootcamp is £450

To apply for Bootcamp, follow the green link above to schedule a 15-minute phone call with Laura. Because Bootcamp is a group coaching experience, getting into Bootcamp is on an application basis. This is to make sure that when we embark upon this epic 9-week journey together, everyone has the same level of commitment to do the work and get results.

 

When scheduling your call, you will be asked a few questions about where you're at and where you'd like to be, which Laura will chat more about with you on your call. Bootcamp commences on Thursday 15th August.

Meet Your Coach...

Hi! I'm Laura Forbes and I founded Quit Dating Idiots for one simple reason: I know how it feels to be you...

I know the heartbreaking disappointment that comes when you realise that the guy you thought was your knight in shining armour turns out to be just another idiot wrapped in tin foil.

I've dated more than my fair share of idiots over the years but it stopped when I finally learned how to address the underlying issues that were causing me to be attracted to and to entertain people who were never going to be compatible with me. After that, it was a matter of upgrading my self-worth and implementing strategies that prevented the same old patterns playing out over and over. This took me years of work and trial and error. But it doesn't have to take you that long! 

A little about me...

I grew up in a small town in England and decided from a young age that I wanted more out of life.

I was fascinated by what made people tick and had an interest in Psychology but when I started learning more about it, I found that a lot of what I was learning didn't resonate with me. The slow pace at which traditional therapy seemed to operate wasn't for me, so I began searching for alternatives.

After much research, I discovered NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming), which although a little untraditional, instantly resonated as the missing piece of the puzzle I'd been searching for all my life. 

I devoured all the books I could get my hands on and attended all the courses I could afford. I'd practise my new skills on my friends and family and I quickly became the 'go-to girl' when anybody had a problem. I loved passing on the knowledge I was learning and seeing the difference it made in my own life and the lives of others. I used the tools I'd learned to manifest the job of my dreams (tripling my income in the process!) and began the journey out of my comfort zone and into the life of my wildest dreams.

 

In 2010 I completed my Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) Master Practitioner Training and become a trained Life Coach. Within weeks, my life had changed beyond recognition once again.

 

NLP is about how our words, beliefs, values and past experience shape how we see and interact with the world around us... and how that affects the results we get in life. It also enables us to make changes by altering our perception around what is and isn't true and therefore what is and isn't possible for us. I learned even more tools that enabled me to press Ctrl + Alt + Delete on the limiting beliefs that were holding me back in life and gave me the confidence to set off on an even bigger adventure that took me to Sydney, Australia.

Over the last decade, I have been on an epic journey of self-discovery, implementing the tools and knowledge I've learned along the way to repeatedly push myself outside of my comfort zone. I've done things I previously never dreamed I'd do in a million years (did I mention I used to be painfully shy and unable to express myself?), including facing fears such as skydiving, singing in public and taking part in an open mic stand-up comedy competition in Bondi! 

To me, the information I learned through all of the personal development I have done was the difference between living a mediocre life trapped by my own imaginary limitations and living a big, juicy life filled with new friends, experiences and adventure.

How Quit Dating Idiots was born...

After years of coaching people one on one, I noticed that more and more women were becoming disheartened and frustrated with dating.

 

After talking to hundreds of women about the problems they were facing in their love lives, there were plenty of common themes... many of the women I spoke to struggled with:

  • Carrying around past traumas and disappointments from their past

  • People-pleasing, minimising their own needs and desires to keep others happy

  • An inability to communicate their boundaries effectively

  • Staying for the potential of a relationship rather than the actual reality of it

  • Turning to friends, books, magazine articles and 'guru's' for advice that had unwittingly led them further and further from themselves

One of the reasons the dating scene is such a mess is because there are so many women out there not trusting themselves and looking for answers in all the wrong places.

You don't need rules. You don't need a list of magic phrases to say to get someone to fall in love with you. That's bullshit. 

 

There is only one person who has the answers you need and that is yourself. It's my job as a Coach to help draw the answers out of you and believe in you until you believe in yourself again. And on top of that, I'll give you some awesome life-changing tools and strategy to make sure you never lose your way again (and even if you do, you'll be able to quickly correct your path!)

There is no one size fits all when it comes to dating and relationship advice.

What there is, is personality types, attachment styles, love languages, values, past traumas to heal, biology, communication, self-esteem and willingness to try. And ultimately: your own intuition and knowledge of what you want and need. A combination of all of this is what will get you to your dream relationship. 

And luckily for you, I've distilled it down and packaged it up for you into a neat little 9 week coaching program! 

You can thank me later :)

If you're ready to quit dating idiots and upgrade your self-esteem over the next 9 weeks, click the link below to schedule your 15-minute call with me.