If you’ve ever been divorced, wondered why divorce rates are so high, or experienced anxiety around whether or not you’re dating/marrying/having-kids-with the right person… watch this video. Alain de Botton eloquently answers and explains some of biggest and juiciest questions around dating, relationships and love. The video is twenty minutes long and worth every minute of your time (so far I’ve watched it four times and I’m still mining nuggets of gold from it!)